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Top 5 Flirting Tips For Men - Flirting Tips - Perfect For Texting

By: Tyler Tray

The significance of flirting has greatly increased in the past 2 decades. If you go back in history, you can quickly see the evolution of flirting why it plays an integral part in today's society.
It wasn't until after the 19th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their relationships. Around the 1950's, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills.
For decades after this reform, the man and the woman took on new challenges. Women had to learn how to look sexy and weed out the uninteresting men. Men had to take control and approach the women they wanted. The fear of rejection became very real. Now it's plain to see, that the men that know how to flirt become successful with women and the ones who don't, take whatever they can get.
Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it's a subject that's evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I'm going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women.
Flirting is the first step in any relationship or interaction with a woman, and it cannot be skipped. In fact, it's the most important step! It's what starts the fire and creates the attraction. It is the step that defines a man's success with women. So let's jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:
Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact
Women communicate through physical interactions way more than men and you must communicate with her physically to be successful. Just make sure that it is non-threatening by touching her hand, arm or back.
After you initiate the touch in a safe way, wait for her to touch you back. If she touches you back, then you are set to keep pursuing. If she doesn't, you might want to consider she is not ready for that and you need to back off a little. Most importantly, if she is touching you, then she feels you are a safe man to be with. And finding safe men is one of the most important things to women. This is a touchy subject, and if applied at the right time, you are golden.
Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing
The ending is the most important part in a conversation - just like it's the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head.
For example, if you are going to meet her don't just say, "ya we will see you then, bye." Instead say something like, "yeah just try not to embarrass me." or "Don't forget to paint your toe nails." or "This is where you say you can't wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself." You will see women wanting to be with you more if you can end off conversations with her laughing.
Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify
Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don't lose your value - that's what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.
You can qualify by asking questions like, "that's a cool necklace, did you get it traveling?" Or if you want to be flirty and do what I call turning the tables you can say, "So are you going to ask me out or what?" or "You didn't just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?" Just remember to always give your approval whenever you're interacting.
Flirting Tips #4 - Props
Props are awesome to use when you want women to come up to you and talk to you. They're also perfect for a fallback option when you need something to talk about that you know works every time. Props give you something to always talk about and move forward with.
For instance, you could have a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then, when they ask about the bandanna you can say something like, "it was a ruff time in my life I don't think we are good enough friends to talk about this yet" then you can go into some funny story or whatever you want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling.
Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting | Flirting through text messages
Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through text messaging, emails, and SMS text messages has became such an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to compose the right message (which also improves your real world flirting). You can also interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances and build your confidence. Most importantly, texting and text messages cut out all the attraction triggers that often times hurt your chances, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you're left with are words and timing.
Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect to have a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand out above the rest and you'll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.

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